Finally...all 3 members of wriggly clan are off the shelves. next, would be the next chapet of - when is the baby coming. yun led the pack with her being married first, and she is also the first for being a mum. long live wriggly clan and may our friendship last for many more decades to come. xoxo

PS: why do i always stand on the right? *scratch head*

decided to do a little dress up today. something which i wanted to do for a long time but lazy to do so. pull out all my dresses and took photos of it. if u browse thru the following, u can see that i may have quite a few dresses, but barely a few accessories to glam it up. maybe i shld try buying necklace to give it a different look.......maybe. =)

was leaving my office at 8plus when i saw the HR office near the office entrance is in pitch dark (which wasn't abnormal cos they rarely work late)..but the creeps came when i smell incense and i notice that there are ppl in white kneeling down n facing inwards. it seems like a sinister kinda ritual which really send shivers up my spine. realising that 2 other colleagues are still in the office, i decided to turn back and warn them not to work till too late. when i turn n walk d0wn the lane, i saw this guy in white holding on to joss sticks n walking past my desk. wah lau eh...wat the hell is a stranger holding on to joss sticks doing in the office lor.well, done my part to warn the other 2 colleague and i faster get out of the office. seems like some the colleagues know whats was going to happen...so am going to find out more from them. doesn't help that now is the 7th month lor. eiks!

PS: ning, i know i have been complaining quite abit abt work for the longest time. the time will come, but not now i guess. =p

for those who are reading this, pls pardon my language hereforth cos i'm fucking piss!!!!!!!

its been a freaking long time since i'm fucking pissed at anyone. i dun even rem when was the last time. but this time round, i just got to let it out.

i admit i'm not the best employee or colleague around but i do try to adhere deadlines as much as possible. i'm always around to help even at the expense of my own workload. many a times, i have been scold for 'having' too much time to help others, but i tink its a favor whether i will be rewarded or not. but it seems like this good nature of mine equates to me being taken advantage of

while i dun understand wat u r busy with, i try to help out as much as i can. i dun even want to mention abt tasks given to u but in the end i still got to complete it myself.

even giving much more leadtimes which means i have to work on weekend. as if thats not enough, things are not done completely. in the end, what i got was 'hmm..maybe u shld have told me earlier'. fuck!!!!!!!!!! yes, i shld have check your work when u r done, but have u spare a thought for me when u r so overdue. to be fair, we have 2 weeks to complete the task. taking the public holiday into consideration, its ok for me to have 1 lesser day to work on it. but in the end, u finish it so late leaving me with only 1 day to complete my part. argh!!!!!!!! i dun enjoy working on weekend, esp when i have to redo ur work. fuck fuck fuck!!!!!

 

Hubby n I took leave today but for different reasons. Mine was to spend some quality time wif yin n ning, while he is going fishing. Didn't plan in advance n we only realize it when I told him abt my plans. Even though we took it for different reasons, we decided to still spend some time by watching the solar eclipse, via tv of cos. Yes, the blurry one in my mil room which only feature ch 8 n cna. Heard tat it will happen at 8am, so we woke up slightly earlier. After 15mins... Still the usual news.. After another 5 mins... It was reported tat it's likely to happen between 8.40am to 9.40am. Wah lau eh...Could have slept longer cos I was finishing the entry till 2 in the morning. So in the end... We went back to sleep =p Moral of story, dun sacrifice ur sleep for anything else 

Visited a hse yesterday and it was love at first sight. 4 room flat with 2 rooms combined to form a big master bedroom, walk in wardrobe and a study room. The last room is left as it is which MIL can stay in . Overall reno is nice and is move in condition. Very teMpted to offer but we need to work out the sum first. Valuation is $585k and owner is selling above value. While there is a $40k grant for living near my parents, the monthly is still quite chor. If we do decide to make the offer, there goes Spain honeymoon =( Oh well, when we have to make the decison, we will have to do it. Need to write 4 award entries and am procrastinating. Beginning to whine quite a bit and it's not very healthy. While I do value compliments, it's seems to be less effect on me already. Sometimes, money speaks louder den words. I should be able to take leave on wed to accompany yun for her gynae appointment. Been neglecting the girls quite a bit and I feel guilty abt it. Esp when Andy kinda ask for a favor over facebook. Well, he doesn't have to cos there's no need to. What are friends for. (though I tink I'm not behaving too well as friends, neglecting them and sorts) It's a working week agaiN in less den 12hrs. Time to bathe and try to crack some brain juice from where I left off from writing the entries.

Been a very long time since I last meet hubby at mrt station and go home together. Of cos, not meeting punctually at 6pm n he has to wait in his office for me, but at least we manage to make it happen. It's our 4mth wedding anniversary and am glad I can spend some time with him. Even though we are just doing our own things, we are still by each other sides =) ps: hubby is arguing that 21 is the official anniversary which I refuse to acknowledge.

Another example of imbalance work life. Was expecting to go home on time today cos major event was over. Was happily planning a jogging session with hubby later in the evening and he was waiting for me at the station already. But when I was finally ready to go, got 2 calls which spoil all plans. Yes, it's back log and we should have respond but can't everyone just give me a break!!! Much as I dun wan to, I got to tell hubby tat he has to go jogging on his own. He wasn't very happy cos first of all he has waited for me for nothing and of cos, it's work over him again. Argh!!!! Just stay away from me!!!!!!!!!!  

Whenever ppl ask me whether life is different after you are married and my reply by far has always been an instant no. Life still goes on as usual. Working late or during weekends is my affair and tat's nothing wrong with that. But it struck me yesterday tat I'm so naive to think that way. The recent churn is taking a toll on me and affecting my barely 4 months marriage. 

Was scheduled to visit a hse on wed but because of work, I couldn't make it. Hubby fell sick in the same afternoon and I couldn't at least knock off on time to take care of him. I wonder, what kind of wife I am?

Ps: wrote tis entry in the yesterday morning. Spoke with a soulmate and I felt better. But later in the evening, hubby called and ask where I am cos he wanna have dinner with me and tat he is still not feeling well. I feel so useless. Damn. To tink my ambition is to be a housewife, I can't even accomplish the basics